Fri, 22 May 2009 12:30:00 GMT软件人http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208451.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/4208451.aspx0http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/4208451.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=4208451做人：I LIKE YOU 做事：YES I CAN<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/4208451.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/223041957/zouzoujianjian/csdn.net/s.gif?r=http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208451.aspx" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041957/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041957/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Fri, 22 May 2009 20:30:00 +0800邹健http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208451.aspx#Feedbackhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208451.aspx邹健http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208451.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/feed.aspxcsdn.net/zouzoujianjian/~1166120/223041957/1166102http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208424.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/4208424.aspx0http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/4208424.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=4208424<br />程序员普遍清高，崇尚自我。这样的性格往往容易给客户带来很不友好的印象。要改变这种心态，首先要学会 I LIKE YOU.   首先从心底强迫去发现客户优点，去喜欢客户，欣赏客户。镜面原理，客户自然会喜欢你。建立在一种良好的关系上，再来谈事情，往往就不会那么对立了。不要抱怨客户老是提出需求改动，或者认为客户当时考虑问题过于简单或者复杂。欢迎客户提出需求改动，这是一种良好的心态。往往你先仔细聆听客户意见，然后在沟通，最后客户往往放弃改动。如果你一味反对，让客户感觉到你不愿意改动的时候，客户就会有反感，同时也不会接受你的意见。关系弄僵了，项目就不好做了。从心底去喜欢客户，是一种很高的心境，放到任何领域都适用。所以要学会 I LIKE YOU<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/4208424.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/223041973/zouzoujianjian/csdn.net/s.gif?r=http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208424.aspx" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041973/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041973/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Fri, 22 May 2009 20:15:00 +0800邹健http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208424.aspx#Feedbackhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208424.aspx邹健http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2009/05/22/4208424.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/feed.aspxcsdn.net/zouzoujianjian/~1166120/223041973/1166102http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2005/02/04/280653.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/280653.aspx1http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/280653.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=280653个人总结<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/280653.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041978/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041978/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Fri, 04 Feb 2005 23:11:00 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+0800zouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2005/01/11/248077.aspx#Feedbackhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2005/01/11/248077.aspxzouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2005/01/11/248077.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/feed.aspxcsdn.net/zouzoujianjian/~1166120/223041979/1166102http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/31/236162.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/236162.aspx1http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/236162.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=236162多表连接中的各种连接的区别和联系<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/236162.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041983/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041983/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Sat, 01 Jan 2005 00:38:00 +0800zouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/31/236162.aspx#Feedbackhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/31/236162.aspxzouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/31/236162.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/feed.aspxcsdn.net/zouzoujianjian/~1166120/223041983/1166102http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/30/234751.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/234751.aspx5http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/234751.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=234751DB中日期和时间的比较另类方法<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/234751.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041984/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041984/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Fri, 31 Dec 2004 00:26:00 +0800zouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/30/234751.aspx#Feedbackhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/30/234751.aspxzouzoujianjianhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/30/234751.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/feed.aspxcsdn.net/zouzoujianjian/~1166120/223041984/1166102http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/archive/2004/12/30/234708.aspxhttp://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/234708.aspx0http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/comments/commentRss/234708.aspxhttp://tb.blog.csdn.net/TrackBack.aspx?PostId=234708日期、时间比较另类方法<img src ="http://blog.csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/aggbug/234708.aspx" width = "1" height = "1" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041989/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/csdn.net/zouzoujianjian/223041989/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>Fri, 31 Dec 2004 00:05:00 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